Until recently no authority in Ireland was as absolute as that
of the bishop in his diocese, or that of the priest in his parish.
Each might well be described as a General Factotum, dispensing
justice and advice in religion as well as in everyday business
matters. Once he was ordained a priest, even his family held him in awe.
Irish "Momism" must take responsibility for this state of affairs.
Sexuality among the Irish had historically been held to be low key. The
woman admitted to be notoriously unfulfilled and she found little or nothing
in sex except more babies.
The problem for her stemmed from the moral dictatorship imposed from
childhood on her natural sexual impulses. Her fate was already sealed early
in life by the Jansenistic French priests, fanatical in their repression
of sex. Imagine their preaching that a woman bathe with her clothing on
to avoid the sin of seeing her own naked body !!
This repressed Irish woman saw nothing wrong in urging her sons into a
life of celibacy. The priesthood enhanced her social status, and she took it
as a sacred mission to give a son to the church.
Irish boys grew up being doted over by an adoring Mom. She inculcated
the philosophy that flirting with girls invited the disaster of the "burden
of marriage". It was better to have Mom look after him, and for him to find
companionship with the other lads in a drinking brotherhood. An old joke
made the rounds: What is an Irish queer? A lad who prefers girls to drink.
If marriage did finally occur, it was usually late in life for the male
and with the finality of a doomsday. And what followed was an annual
parade of babies.
Comes the revolution! In today's Ireland many young priests are
questioning everything including celibacy. They are leaving the church in
large numbers, and recruits are failing to fill the ranks. This is
throwing the old guard into a tizzy. In all fairness, however, without
the priesthood unifying the people against British oppression, and with
their own unshakable faith in God, the Irish would not have survived
this long.
A new dawn has come for the reappraisal of the women of Ireland. It was
a myth perhaps that the Irish colleen with the green eyes and face bathed
in loveliness could smite a man's heart with a mere smile. In reality, the
Irishwoman was a second class citizen. Drabness had been imposed on her by
Mommy's boys who were scared "spitless" over sex and marriage. She found
little encouragement to make herself attractive because the effort was not
appreciated.
These women are not yet eager to accept the lofty goals of the American
feminist movement. They are looking simply for respect and dignity for a
fellow human being. They know that half the brain power belongs to women
and full use of it will benefit everyone. They want to tell the Irish lads
to look into the eyes of their women to find the mythical green-eyed colleen.
They want them to learn that love is a many splendored thing. Love must be
practiced in complete freedom, with no interference from church-made laws.
The church has no place in the bedroom. The sacrament of marriage, and not
celibacy, is the highest form of human existence.
In spite of the reluctance to emulate the American cousins, Ireland does
have her activists. Bernadette Devlin comes to mind. Her first appearance on
the public scene was at Queen's University in Belfast in the company of
socialist students in 1967. She was there in a march in Derry in 1968, which
met with a baton charge from the Royal Ulster Constabulary. She was there
at Burntollet Bridge when the infamous Ian Paisley and his mob assaulted the unarmed marchers with bottles, clubs and stones. She was there at the speaker's
rostrum at Free Derry Corner when the paratroopers gunned down a peaceful
assembly in the horror which was to become known as Bloody Sunday.
Bernadette was voted into the Commons at 21 years of age, the youngest
member ever. By the end of her term the power of the Civil Rights had
dwindled to rhetoric. She is no longer a member of Parliament. Nevertheless,
she has earned immortality as a magnificent champion of the people and a
dynamic symbol of the new Irishwoman.