Mother and Child Reunion


 We had a meaningful moment the other day, and while we tend to avoid meaning like the plague, this one was so profound, even we could not ignore it.
 It had to do with a mother in search of her daughter.
 A woman came to the Village this week, looking for access to the internet. She was clearly determined, and happy to pay the minimal access fee we charge for sitting down to a souped-up pentium that's hard-wired to the net.
 Like many of the folks who come for access, she was looking for one thing, and we hope that she finds it.
 She is looking for her daughter, Mandy, whom she gave up for adoption nearly eighteen years ago. Turns out there is a wide network of parents seeking children, and children seeking parents, and the web is an ideal place for them to find one another.
 She'd seen the website on the CBS Program, 48-Hours, and found it within a few minutes of searching, although she had never seen the internet before.
 It's fortunate for her that she did. By the following day, the site was apparently so swamped that it was no longer responding; the result, we assume, of the national television exposure.
 But there were lots of kids, and lots of moms, and enough hope there, we thought, to give her some of her own. Other folks who were there, some more experienced, were glad to help her when she had a question, especially when they learned the object her quest.
 Indeed, it is that, in fact the site profiled on 48 Hours is called
Birthquest,
and is sponsored by Visionquest International.
 There are times here at the Internet Mash Unit that we get a little jaded, from the phone-calls and the questions, the endless questions that we answer.
 So it was good to have something meaningful clobber us on the heads and shout "WAKE UP !! THIS IS WORTHWHILE !!" since we sometimes tend to forget that.
 We'll try to keep her in mind.



May 19, 1996 Charles Paparella All Rights Reserved

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